February 14 -- the Day of Cheesecake
Feb. 14th, 2007 09:15 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
It's Valentine's Day today. I'll spare you the full force of my bitterness -- I haven't had a non-disastrous date in about 5 years. However, I think I am adopting my roommate's name for it -- Dies Irae, the Day of Wrath.
The funny thing is, it's not even meant to be February 14th. It's supposed to be related to Lupercalia, an old Roman fertility holiday, but it actually comes from a story by Geoffrey Chaucer, on which Valentine's Day was the day on which all the birds chose their mate for the year.
Chaucer invented this tradition, and he seems to have been thinking of of May 2, the feast of St. Valentine of Genoa.
For some reason, it got moved/confused with the feast of a different St. Valentine, about whom nothing is known except that he was martyred.
So remember, Montrealers, when you're out there freezing in -25-with-the-windchill weather to go through the ritual date with your loved one -- or person you met last night online -- remember that this ritual self-flagellation for the coupled and the single could've been in May instead.
Now the only question is, why do the lovers get the chocolate when the singles need it more?
The funny thing is, it's not even meant to be February 14th. It's supposed to be related to Lupercalia, an old Roman fertility holiday, but it actually comes from a story by Geoffrey Chaucer, on which Valentine's Day was the day on which all the birds chose their mate for the year.
Chaucer invented this tradition, and he seems to have been thinking of of May 2, the feast of St. Valentine of Genoa.
For some reason, it got moved/confused with the feast of a different St. Valentine, about whom nothing is known except that he was martyred.
So remember, Montrealers, when you're out there freezing in -25-with-the-windchill weather to go through the ritual date with your loved one -- or person you met last night online -- remember that this ritual self-flagellation for the coupled and the single could've been in May instead.
Now the only question is, why do the lovers get the chocolate when the singles need it more?
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Date: 2007-02-14 02:39 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2007-02-14 09:05 pm (UTC)The only Valentine anything I've ever gotten is from my father, who began a long tradition of giving us kids chocolates in order to distract us while he made the proper presentation of flowers and jewelry to Mom. He still sends out candy to us girls even though nowadays he's more concerned with trying to shuffle all the dogs out of the room. ^^;;;
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Date: 2007-02-15 01:22 pm (UTC)And your suggestion for a name for the day seems popular.
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Date: 2007-02-15 01:21 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2007-02-14 03:04 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2007-02-15 01:24 pm (UTC)